Dear Dr. Frankie,
I joined my very first lesbian relationship about four months ago. We worry a great deal about my gf and I also enjoy on a regular basis We spend with herâ€¦but recently Iâ€™ve noticed some feelings that are new. Iâ€™d like some suggestions about how exactly to get a handle on and avoid them, because We foresee them being dangerous to your relationship.
Girls is naturally insecure and jealous, and Iâ€™ve noticed Iâ€™ve started feeling threatened because we think about my gf to be more appealing than i will be. (in the same manner that other girls could be jealous of a-listers or girls they consider more attractive/smart/funny than by themselves, i will be observing these emotions towards my personal girlfriend.)